Don't immediately jump to the conclusion that they are there to win your heart and get back with you. Be as respectful to the person as you would like to be treated. Encourage them to speak, give them a cup of tea or coffee, be a positive experience for them first. When you feel comfortable with why they are approaching you, when you feel they've given you enough information, then you can decide where to go next.
Most likely they'll return to you first through texting or other social media. Whatever they say to you, make your response short but friendly. Let them know you're not going to wring their neck or cut off all the buttons on their nice shirts. It took a lot out of them to build up enough courage to reach out to you, writing a text, of course, is easy—but swallowing your pride and committing to opening up communication is a lot to risk.
Be positive, not negative. Keep your interactions healthy. Don't delve deeply into the past to figure out what happened; you should have done that by yourself and figured out what you needed to during the breakup. If you're asking them questions about the past, you are telling them essentially to go away, and that you don't believe in reconciliation. Keep things really light. Go out for coffee, not a symphony and steak. Don't bring them around all your friends and family, keep it private. You are strong, and you have already survived a breakup with them, so know it's going to be okay.
While we may want to believe that our ex will return one day, that is not always the case, and no amount of wishful or positive thinking will change that fact. Breaking up with someone is a difficult thing to experience, so no matter what happens, try to stay strong and stay positive. If your ex ends up coming back to you great, if not that's great too, you can't get hung up on those outcomes.
Try to keep up a positive mental attitude and move on with your life. There is more to life than being in a relationship, always keep that in mind. Content is for informational or entertainment purposes only and does not substitute for personal counsel or professional advice in business, financial, legal, or technical matters. As soon as we broke up, he was having sex with another woman. He is now in a relationship and in 2 weeks she lives with him.
He posts pictures and messages all the time, says he is so happy, yet he can't completely let go of me. He can't go 2 weeks without being with me. We have been broken up for a few months from a long-term relationship. What do you think? He has a girlfriend -- so he probably isn't thinking about you too much. If he isn't communicating in some way, that doesn't signal interest either.
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My ex and I met in hs around sophmore year, we didnt start dating dating til like senior year where we finally took eachother serious and claimed eachother. I still think about him for some reason, i think our relationship was strange and unloyal but he loves me deep down.. Im so confused and feel SOOO stupid because he just got back with her and completely cut me off I moved senior year and live like 10 hours away I am totallyyyy out of his league and he's done so many bad things to me in hs while we were together.
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Lately we've been speaking via phone and calls.. At some point I blocked him thinking that will help me forget about him and all we shared but I just cant. I really want him back.. My husband is really nice.. Don't know what to do. He loves me but the feeling isn't mutual, I've got a child with my husband. I don't know if my ex will want me back The thought of leaving my husband of 4years is scary. It was really out of the blue. Basically in the time we've been dating he initiated everything, he told me he loved me first, said I was the best thing that happened to him.
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I met his whole family, was there when things got real tough for him and eventually I let my walls down and fell for him. I already got out of a relationship where there was none of that. He planned for us to move to Auckland, he moved two weeks ago and asked me to do long distance and that he was so grateful I agreed and decided to stick by. I still love him like that wont fade, I've never felt this way about anyone so strongly it took me a while but it did happen, he was great at communication like he wouldnt let us go to sleep on a bad note and talk it out.
Like it was such a good relationship, he was really low about a month ago and said I was the only thing keeping him going, he got out of that because he left that job and then the next week he was in Auckland with a new license and new job. I was supposed to move down in two months time. So on Friday night he came over, perfect night, I got him his favorite treats and everything like usual and we were just us, the next morning was great we woke up goofy and giggling and just happy, dropped me off at work and said he cant wait for us to go to work together and come home together, picked me up from work, everything was fine like you can tell when someone was off and he wasnt at all.
Then he came up from his haircut and it took a while like nearly 2 hours, then he came back to mine, we were supposed to meet my family and he said he cant move in with me it was moving so fast and then didnt speak and I asked if he was breaking up with me and he said yes. I asked is it the right person wrong time and he didnt answer and I also asked if there could be something for us in the future and he said he doesnt want to make any promises he cant keep. But followed with you were my friend first and will always be my friend, I've always considered you as one of my best friends.
He knows everything about me and so do I about him. I've never felt this way about anyone before and its just killing me because I could be there in two weeks from now. Do you think they're could be a chance for us in the future?
People said if he felt this way, he wouldnt have broken up with me I saw the phone number at a very good time I needed it. Need to set realistic boundaries. Talk about what you are texting to this other person. See if it is bothering your boyfriend and why -- and if his reasons are really realistic. I have been dating this guy for 4 year but he said he need time to think 1 week ago because he thinks am cheating on him texting wiz another guy.
Hi I have a good question? My ex of 26 years cheated and we have four children together. We meet for the kids but o now find he shows no manners towards me anymore. Doesn't open doors, say thankyou when I've made an effort to drive the children for a meet. I really feel disrespected in so many ways and used it hurts! Me and my ex bf had been dating for 7 years and he is in the army and just got back from his second deployment. After a few months back home he broke up with me and said it was because I wanted to get married and he didn't. Our relationship was great and this was all out of the blue.
Is there a chance he could be together again? Then i went for holidays with my family and one day he called me and said that he doenst feel that he misses me and that he is not in love anymore 1 week before that he said that he missed me but he didnt wanted to break up with me so i had to break up with him.
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Me and my ex were high school sweethearts, 5 yrs past and we ended up madly in love. I Never cheated on her. Skip forward to our breakup I was leaving to the military and wanted her to live her life and enjoy the world cuz she was stuck in relationship after relationship but ours was always going to be different. Fast forward 6 months She broke up over phone and then I bombarded messages she blocked me from every social platform. After some time she responded with like on my personal message in facebook but on that day I missed to check and again bombarded messages.
Now no contacts no news nothing. I do not knw what she is doing now? I got virtually every information she has been hiding over the months easily on my own phone: I also got her phone calls and deleted messages. If you need any type of hack you should employ the contact. Do let things cool off for awhile -- that in all honesty is the best thing to do in this situation and the only way of having a chance. He might not change his mind though, in that there is incompatibility. He needs to confront his feelings with his ex first before doing anything with you.
Did he break up with her to be with you? He has too much that's unresolved. He may have enjoyed your connection, but it perhaps wasn't exactly what he was wanting. I say -- don't count on him coming back and go out and carve YOUR life. There are plenty of men out there who will love you and not play these games. If this man comes back, you first need to know what YOU really want. Which it's perfectly fine not to take him back because of his wishy-washyness. It's also okay for you to try him again.
The advice most experts would give you is not to contact him for at least a month. I dated this guy 2 months. He was not emotionally open but spent a lot of time with me on his own will: He left me because he still loves his ex so he felt it is not right to be with me. I felt that we had a great connection and I could understand his thinking. Also he told me he thought I was not right for him because we had 10 years age difference him older. I acted very kind with the breakup. He apologised every sentence and showered me with compliments. I can remember his ways of looking at me and I refuse to believe that there were not feelings there.
I do not want to but I do hope he will miss me and come back. Do I have any chance, if his ex does not want him back? But we have been good together. No major quarrels etc. So he called it off. Feeling that we are not compatible. So neither did I pressure him. As time goes by.. I think the pace of me getting angry gets more and he just got more frustrated. Do you think I let things cool off a little while and I would still have chance of trying with him again? He is married now and it's funny because we keep running into each other and now we text each other almost every other day. He says he's happily married, but then one week ago he texted me that I still have half of his heart.
What does that mean? I am married too by the way!! It's been 2 years since we first broke up, and a year since we disconnected our relation. I was waiting for 4 month as he kept promising he will break up. I was unhappy but still madly in love with him. I broke up with him. I begged, cried got drunk, but he kept his game, telling me he still loves me, but doesn't trust our love anymore. I needed a vacation and flew 5 month away from home travelling in hope to forget him.
I flew broken hearted. I couln't forget nor to forgive him. I couldn't forgive him at all, and I couldn't be apart from him. I kept my distance for a week and than texted him again a week that felt like a year we got back together again, but I never forgave him, 2 weeks before I came back I apologized and said that I can't really forgive him and that I am terribly sorry.
I contacted him 2 month lated, on April he told me he is in a new relationship. I haven't seen him for a year and a half now, but I think of him all the time. After I last contacted him on April he blocked me on whatsup, and then after a month he unblocked me, what could this mean? I know he still think of me, I know I love him still I cannot date others, I don't want to date others It sounds like he is pushing you out.
Stop trying to message him and see if he comes back around eventually. You need to focus on yourself now and make a new life for yourself. Don't sit around and wait for this person. You can't force someone to love or trust you. I was with my ex for 6 years and he had just finally gotten married. We were happy and starting our life as a marriaged couple even though we had basically been married and acted as so for years before we finally made it official.
He ended up cheating on me and left to go move in to his dads house rigth before Christmas. I was destroyed by this cause there were no signs of anything wrong between us before he did what did. There was a huge argument when it when down and it blowed up bad fora few weeks.
He blocked me on facebook and when didnt talk for months. Then i finally was able to move of of the apt we have together for 5 years and to another apt somewhere else. Afterwards i noticed he un blocked me from facebook. I didnt message him after i noticed that.
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A month later i was diagnosed with cancer and i knew i needed to tell him just in case things went bad he had a right to know. So i told him in a message and sent it. He responded within mins and wanted to talk to me. We agreed to meet up in the park and talk about things. We did this every day for a week and even went out and hung out. He told me he wanted to be there for me with what i was going througg and told me he missed me and cared about me still.
Which he was taking to appointments and surgerys and coming over a lot and talkinv to me every day. This has been going on for months now. He was still with the other girl during which he told me he would fight with her a lot about it cause she didnt like that he wants to be there for me. Which we had our ups and downs during the months cause he seems to be torn on what he wants.
He told me that he her that he didnt care what she thought about it and that he was doing to be there for me no matter what. When he left me and when we he back and wanted to talk to me he would still say i was beautiful and that i didnt deserve what happened and that he knows he had it good with me but he messed it up. So after a couple weeks of us talking non stop and he seemed really happy talking to me and even making plans with me and it all seemed to be going well. I thought pkay we are starting to heal and we are talking about things.
I sent him a message telling he how i felt about him and told him i didnt expect anything from him but that i need to be honest about my feelings and how i still loved him and that going through the cancer and being able to talk to him really brights up my day. I felt so nervous about expressing myself like that and even wanted to apologize thinking maybe it was dumb since we were basically acting like friends.
He read the message and told me he need so time to think. I wasnt sure how to take that response.. He thinks that I cheat him Now he shift to abroad.. He was having a rough time with his sons mother and I disagreed to space and definitely over reacted. After the breakup he said he still loves me, but I did something that was a lot to handle.
Do you think after some space, we may have a second try? We were in a fast paced relationship and were looking for a place to move in with each other right before this happened.
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He is the man of my dreams and always told me I was his best girlfriend and I am everything he needed in one. But I overreacted by putting my life on the line, which I know brought fear to him. He said he can still be here for me after we have some space. I really hope he gives me a second chance. Hi my me and my lartner have been together 13yrs an 5 weeks ago he woke up an said he loves me but isnt in love with me, says that hes gave uo the perfect woman an that he needs his own space yet still cimes to my home stays shiwers etc, we have kids together also, he says he needs to live his life which he dose anyway or regret no livin his life or regret losing me in years to come he says its a chance he has to take, i dont know what way to take all of this any answers would be appreciated he tells everyone he has given uo the perfect relationship for no reason what so ever he says hes depressed an shows no empathy im so confused.
I need your advice please. What do I do if my ex says he doesn't like me but still asks my guy friend how I'm doing and he got jealous and asked a boy I was flirting with if he liked me and he is still talking to me and still touchy with me but I don't get it what do I do. Its been almost two weeks since we broke up. We were both 21 hadn't had relationships before so everything was a first for us. When we first started to go on dates and start hanging out it got more serious to the point of I asked him through text what we were and he said I was his girlfriend.
Six months down the line I told him I loved him, I thought he did too, because he is VERY affectionate, more than myself, he would always pull me in to kiss or cuddle etc. He felt bad and said he just wasn't there yet. I'm not saying to go back to your ex either. I would really think about this one. I don't know your situation with your ex, so I can't give u much advice.
I've never looked back at any of my exes and wished I had gone back to them, always moved forward. He wasnt willing to work on the relationship then and in the end hurt you, why would he want to now? Because his plan A fell through. Dont be a door mat. Work on what you have now. Don't give him a chance. I have found that all too often all the reasons that a relationship ended are still there.
I know it hurts but best off leaving the ex be.
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You said that you arn't feeling the same way about your new guy You were with your ex for 2 years which is awhile for a relationship. Give it time with the new guy and see where it goes.
Perhaps he isn't the right one for you either but you won't know without giving it a chance. Best to go back to not dealing with your ex and you will get over him again. From personal experience my ex did this crap with me. It isn't necessarily selfish to want to have your cake and eat it to Have to pick one or possibly neither.. I Think it's up you whether you give him a chance or not and give your time to others I think the new guy deserves a fair chance. I would tell your ex to take off However if you feel like you can't be fully invested with the new guy then you need to end.
Try to go back to how you felt when your ex and you broke up. Remember that pain and search inside yourself to see if you are willing for him to hurt you all over again I believe in taking risks Sounds like he's upset you've moved on, and who knows maybe he does still have feelings, but that doesn't mean it's going to last. Take it from experience - my ex devastated me four times three of those times he came crawling back. The one time I ignored all of his stupid attempts at communication? I get estalked into being forced to see how Great His Life is.
It's always a power trip. Remember what that was. Now, picture yourself when you're 60 years old. Which man do you want to wake up next to? Your ex, or the current guy you're seeing? Perhaps neither, maybe there is someone better for you! The point is that you, like me, put a lot of stock in our present emotional feelings. We fly off the cuff and want what we want right now, dammit! Because what we feel right now is the best base off of which we'll make life decisions It's damn hard to separate yourself from someone you love. You "know" the ex, so you gravitate towards what is familiar to you.
You want that touch and that is perfectly normal. But do not think for a second that he is the only one for you. It takes time and patience to find someone else. You were attracted to men before him, and you will be attracted to men again. What is in your best interest long term? You were with him for 2 years. Can you repair what wasn't working?
In the DM's, your blue-Snapchat-text, or in a late-night 3am message. The band is a mutual favourite of ours. I looked down to my phone to see he texted me: Why on earth do ex-boyfriends and girlfriends attempt to crawl up on us when we're finally, totally over them? Here are a couple reasons why your ex might be making a comeback. They wonder why they lost you and start to remember what they could have, if you were in their life.
If a guy comes back to you, it doesn't necessarily mean he loves you or wants to be with you - he could simply be curious. So if you cut your ex off faster that Yo Gatti, they might be feeling it. They're wondering what you're doing, who you're hanging out with. You're proving yourself to be really independent which is super attractive, and also can get your ex worrying about whether or not you need them.
The answer is no, btw. And they know you at-least used to give a shit about them. So they're hoping somewhere, deep down, you still do. Who else knows about their mom's tequila problem or about that hole in the wall they hid from their landlord 6-months ago? And they want to get that gratification you used to give them. If they're feeling emotional, or going through a tough time, they can remember moments where you helped them through it together and get nostalgic.
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